Bismillahirahmanirahim =)
Alhamdulilah, Allah The Most Merciful still giving us this opportunity to keep learning and spreading this beautiful religion of His.
In Shaa Allah ^_^
This time I hope to share with all dear beloved brothers and sisters
about
THE WAY TO ADVISE SOMEONE PROPERLY
JUST
LIKE
OUR
DEAR
ISLAM
TEACH
If we want to advise someone
we must follow this 3 rules
otherwise it is better for us to just keep quiet
This principles to advise need to be obey when we want to give advise
to ANYONE
This principles were created so that the advise will affect their heart
FIRST PRINCIPLE
~Never correct someone when you angry~
Most of us only correct people when we angry. That is wrong !!
SECOND PRINCIPLE
~Never correct someone in front of people~
we need to correct them secretly just between you and he. Don't bring someone else. Enough with only the two of you
THIRD PRINCIPLE
~Never use 'you' but you need to use 'we'~
Rather than say 'you recite the Quran wrong'
say ' WE should do it this way'
Get IT ?
If you can obey this 3 simple principles then you can give your advise to anyone you care :)
we are all brothers and sisters so correct among us in the right way
That way
In shaa Allah
It will give ease for each of us to change
Its all begin in us !!!
Don't wait for others to obey this principles
YOU NEED TO BECOME THE LIVING EXAMPLE =)
~ Wallahualam ~